Weddings are a time of joy, celebration, and love. They are also a time of meticulous planning, from the venue to the guest list.
One of the most debated topics regarding wedding planning is whether or not to invite children.
A recent incident at a wedding has reignited this debate, prompting many to reconsider their stance on the matter.
The Incident
A viral video showcased a toddler at a wedding, using the bride’s gown as an impromptu napkin. The child, seemingly unable to find a napkin, decided that the bride’s dress was the next best thing.
The bride, caught off guard, initially didn’t realize what was happening. But upon seeing the child wiping her face on the gown, she couldn’t help but laugh.
The video was captioned humorously by the uploader, suggesting that serving ketchup with chicken nuggets and fries for the children’s meal wasn’t the best idea. Or the real lesson was to reconsider inviting kids altogether.
Although, this might not be a laughing matter. Considering the average cost of a wedding dress typically ranges from $500 to $4,000, ¹ with several factors influencing the final price.
The Reaction
The video garnered a plethora of responses, with many sympathizing with the bride and applauding her for taking the incident in stride. However, many commenters felt this was a prime example of why children should not be invited to weddings.
“No kids at my wedding,”
one person wrote.
Another one commented:
“This. This right here is reason #43 of why you should have a child-free wedding,”.
Some even took issue with the child’s mother, feeling she should have been more proactive in teaching her child manners:
“The mom laughing would’ve sent me over the edge,”
Perspectives from a Wedding Planning Forum
The topic of child-free weddings has sparked a lively discussion on Reddit ².
The original poster, shared their experience of receiving a wedding invitation that did not include their 13-month-old son. This led to a broader conversation about the increasing trend of child-free weddings.
Several reasons were cited by various users:
Cost Concerns
Many mentioned the high costs of accommodating children, especially when venues charge full prices for kids or don’t offer a separate kids’ menu.
Desired Atmosphere
Children’s presence can change the event’s vibe.
Concerns ranged from potential disruptions like babies crying during ceremonies to toddlers demanding attention during receptions.
Logistics and Enjoyment
Some users felt that weddings could be more enjoyable for children, given the formalities and late hours. Additionally, parents might be more at ease and enjoy the event without managing their kids.
Personal Choices
Some couples, especially those who are child-free by choice, prefer an adult-only environment. They believe this allows guests to let loose and enjoy without any reservations.
A recent article by the Wedding Wire shares the concern ³.
Deciding on kids’ presence at weddings poses challenges. While they can add joy and create memorable moments, they can also increase costs, cause distractions, and pose safety concerns. Some venues may not be child-friendly, and excluding kids might deter some guests from attending.
Couples must weigh these factors to make an informed decision.
What do you think?
Should children be a part of the wedding festivities, bringing their unbridled joy and occasional mischief? Or is it better to keep the event strictly for adults, ensuring a more controlled and predictable environment?
The debate continues.
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Sources
- brides.com/average-wedding-dress-cost-4799007
- reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/7nnbdv/kids_at_weddings_no_judgement_just_funny/
- weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/kids-or-no-kids-to-the-wedding/04258406af4388c5.html
This article was produced and syndicated by Viral Chatter. It was inspired by this video:
@thefoxsaystwins Do not recommend serving ketchup with the chicken nuggets and fries for the kiddie meal…or just don’t invite kids
#bridefail
#imsoembarrassed
#weddingwhoops
#rehersaldinner
#kidfreewedding
#kidsaremessy
♬ dumb dumb – sped up – mazie
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Martha A. Lavallie
Martha is a journalist with close to a decade of experience in uncovering and reporting on the most compelling stories of our time. Passionate about staying ahead of the curve, she specializes in shedding light on trending topics and captivating global narratives. Her insightful articles have garnered acclaim, making her a trusted voice in today's dynamic media landscape.
