Parenthood is a journey filled with countless moments of joy, challenges, and lessons. But amidst these well-known experiences, there lies a subtle, unspoken aspect that has caught the attention of many.
Uploader Jillian discussed this rarely talked about, unsung benefit in her recent video, sparking a wave of reactions and discussions among parents.
The Great Escape: Using Kids as Social Shields
In the video, Jillian playfully touches upon the convenience that children might bring to social scenarios. This notion seems to strike a chord with numerous parents.
Haven’t we all, at some point, yearned for a quiet evening at home, even when we’re amidst a social gathering? The reasons can be many, and Jillian’s perspective offers a fresh take on one such possibility.
But, Wait! There’s More: Other Hidden Benefits
Jillian’s comments led to a discussion of many other hidden parenthood benefits that are rarely acknowledged.
Here are some of the other benefits of kids that are rarely acknowledged.
Convenience In the Small Things
Parenthood brings with it a level of preparedness that can be incredibly convenient. The availability of wipes 24/7 is a luxury that parents quickly appreciate.
Additionally, children often become their parents’ snack couriers, ensuring that adults can enjoy a moment of relaxation without getting up. These small but significant conveniences add to the multifaceted joys of being a parent.
Rediscovering Playfulness
One of the unexpected joys of parenthood is the opportunity to relive childhood. Parents often use their kids as an excuse to dive back into toys or indulge in watching child-friendly shows and movies.
While it may seem like an excuse, it’s a delightful way for parents to bond with their children while rediscovering their inner child
Don’t Have Kids Yet? Parenthood vs. Happiness
Thinking of diving into parenthood? Hold onto your hats, because the happiness rollercoaster is full of unexpected twists. Early research, led by psychologist Daniel Kahneman ⁴, found that many women ranked time with their kids as less enjoyable than, say, watching TV or shopping.
Sounds bleak, right? But there’s more to the story.
While the arrival of a baby might mean a dip in happiness and a few more arguments with your partner, the effects aren’t universal. Older dads, for instance, often report a happiness boost post-baby.
And geography plays a role too. In countries like Norway and Hungary, parents are generally happier than their childless peers, thanks to supportive child-care policies. But in places like the U.S., the happiness scales tip the other way after having kids.
In short, while kids bring challenges, the happiness outcome? It’s a mixed bag, and factors like age, location, and support systems play a big role.
So, before you decide, remember: it’s not just about the sleepless nights, but also the societal safety nets (or lack thereof).
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Sources
- health.ucdavis.edu/children/patient-education/Positive-Parenting
- positivepsychology.com/positive-parenting/
- rsgc.on.ca/news-detail?pk=998751
- pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15576620/
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