52% of Young Adults Live With Parents… Failure to Launch? Fox News Discussion

Over 50% ¹ of young adults between 18 and 29 still live with their parents. Surprising? Maybe not.

In a recent Fox News Saturday Night discussion, this startling statistic opened up a can of worms about the challenges facing millennials today. From the high costs of housing and student debt to the comforts of home, this debate delves into the heart of a generational divide.

But is it just about financial constraints, or is there more to this story?

The Comforts of Home vs. The Call of Independence

The panel, featuring Brian Kilmeade, Dr. Nicole Saphier, and comedy legend Rich Boss, tackled the issue head-on. The consensus? It’s complicated.

While some view staying at home as a ‘failure to launch,’ others see it as a strategic move. Kilmeade, for instance, expressed understanding for those saving for a house, while Saphier highlighted the importance of having a plan for independence.

The Role of Parents: Support or Hindrance?

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The discussion took an interesting turn when it broached the topic of parental involvement. Are today’s parents too involved, creating a generation of dependent adults?

Or is their support crucial in a world vastly different from the one they grew up in?

It was found that the traditional milestone of financial independence (Note: Financial independence in this context is defined as earning an income that is at least 150% above the poverty threshold for an individual in a particular year.) by age 22 is not being met by most young adults, with only 24% achieving this by 2018, compared to 32% in 1980 ¹ .

This delay in financial independence is partly due to extended education and later entry into the workforce. Along with the economic conditions that millennials face.

However, public perception is divided on this trend, with 55% of adults believing parents are overly involved in their young children’s lives ¹. This perception raises questions about whether parental support is enabling dependency or is a necessary response to the economic challenges faced by young adults.

The Changing Family Dynamics

The conversation also touched on the evolving concept of family. In the past, extended families often lived together, a practice that seems to be making a comeback. However, this shift raises questions about the responsibilities of grandparents.

With millennials having children later in life, the expectation for grandparents to play a more active role in childcare has become a contentious topic.

In modern families, the role of grandparents ² is evolving significantly. Multi-generational living arrangements are becoming more common, influenced by factors like longer life expectancy and later childbearing.

However, this evolution in family dynamics also brings challenges. As millennials start families later in life, the capacity of grandparents to engage actively is impacted.

Grandparents are increasingly stepping in to fill childcare gaps, especially in dual-income households, but their ability to do so is affected by their own age and life circumstances.

Finding a Middle Ground

So, what’s the verdict? It’s clear that navigating adulthood for millennials is more nuanced than it appears. While financial constraints play a significant role, the debate underscores a deeper need to balance independence and familial support.

As society evolves, so must our understanding of these dynamics, finding a middle ground that respects both the aspirations of young adults and their parents’ desires.


  1. pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/09/04/a-majority-of-young-adults-in-the-u-s-live-with-their-parents-for-the-first-time-since-the-great-depression/
  2. pewresearch.org/social-trends/2019/10/23/majority-of-americans-say-parents-are-doing-too-much-for-their-young-adult-children/
  3. northstateparent.com/article/include-grandparents-modern-family/
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